Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage: Professional Practice in the Hong Kong Cultural ContextHong Kong University Press, 1 במאי 2005 - 320 עמודים Although the ideal of companionate marriage has gradually been established in Hong Kong, demographic trends from the 1980s reflect greater marital and family instability. In the years to come, adult fulfilment is likely to be found in various ways: through marriage, divorce, remarriage, or the single state. Each of these has its own potentials, tensions, and prospects for growth and development. Each offers different though viable life styles through which people can develop in adulthood. These trends call for a rethinking of marriage and of our expectation that marriage and the family bond will continue to serve as the relational context of adult living. This collection on marital work offers the means to rethink marriage by examining the ways husbands and wives cope with the demands and dilemmas of their relationship, from diverse parenting, forgiveness, coping with childhood abuse, infidelity, disenchantment and distancing, to uncoupling in divorce, and re-coupling in remarriage. Each chapter addresses aspects of these issues, with a focus on the recovery, reinvention and reconstruction of the self to meet the many challenges arising from the relationship and from life circumstances. |
מתוך הספר
תוצאות 1-5 מתוך 58
עמוד 17
... feel extremely anxious and are unable to trust each other's intentions . Anger and animosity easily become the backdrop of their daily interactions . Such processes usually take place between couples who are emotionally fused or ...
... feel extremely anxious and are unable to trust each other's intentions . Anger and animosity easily become the backdrop of their daily interactions . Such processes usually take place between couples who are emotionally fused or ...
עמוד 18
... feel " that is the way she is " . He does not see that his spouse is a human - being - in - process , that she has been evolving from a past , and is still in the process of transforming into a person - to - be in the future . The ...
... feel " that is the way she is " . He does not see that his spouse is a human - being - in - process , that she has been evolving from a past , and is still in the process of transforming into a person - to - be in the future . The ...
עמוד 19
... feel the same about the parents ' current behaviour and that of other people , including that of his spouse in marriage . The process of reviewing one's family - of - origin experiences with the partner as a participant listener will ...
... feel the same about the parents ' current behaviour and that of other people , including that of his spouse in marriage . The process of reviewing one's family - of - origin experiences with the partner as a participant listener will ...
עמוד 21
... feel secure and comfortable enough to share even their inner thoughts and feelings and to share their family - of - origin experiences without feeling afraid of being disrespected , ridiculed or shamed . We also encouraged the couple to ...
... feel secure and comfortable enough to share even their inner thoughts and feelings and to share their family - of - origin experiences without feeling afraid of being disrespected , ridiculed or shamed . We also encouraged the couple to ...
עמוד 27
... be strict with my boys . LM : No one supervised you when you were young , and now you feel it is important to supervise your children ? Mr Chan : When they ( his children ) are DISCOVERING THE SPOUSE'S OTHER - NESS 27.
... be strict with my boys . LM : No one supervised you when you were young , and now you feel it is important to supervise your children ? Mr Chan : When they ( his children ) are DISCOVERING THE SPOUSE'S OTHER - NESS 27.
תוכן
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Tackling the Intrinsic Dilemma in Marital Infidelity | 67 |
Forgiveness in Marriage | 91 |
Tracking the | 119 |
Culturally Sensitive | 143 |
Ten Hong Kong | 169 |
The Experiences of | 191 |
Reflections | 221 |
The Changing Nature and Ideology of Marriage in | 243 |
Reconstruction of Traditional Values for Culturally | 267 |
Index | 291 |
מהדורות אחרות - הצג הכל
מונחים וביטויים נפוצים
affaired party affected anger behaviour beliefs Chan child child sexual abuse childhood sexual abuse Chinese societies clients clinical cohabitation commitment communication conflict Confucian Confucius context coping counsellor couple couple therapy cultural decision to divorce Department of Social divorce decision divorced men divorced women emotional expectations experience exploration extramarital affairs Family Therapy family-of-origin father feel felt focus group forgiveness gender harmony human hurt husband individual interaction interpersonal interpersonal relationships intervention intimacy intimate relationships involved let go lives marital relationship marital review married married couples meaning Mencius moral mother negative pain participants partner perception perspective problems psychological reflect remarried family remarried persons responsible role sense sessions sharing single parents Social Administration social workers spousal relationship spouse stepfamilies survivors Susan therapeutic therapist therapy third party traditional trust understanding University of Hong values wife wives workshops Xunzi York
קטעים בולטים
עמוד 15 - (1972). Modern ideology, industrialization, and conjugalism: The case of Hong Kong. International journal of Sociology of the Family, 2: 139-50. Yeung C. and Kwong WM (1998). A study of the attitudes of pre-marital couples towards marriage in Hong Kong. Hong Kong journal of Social Work, 32 (1): 71-84. Young G. (1997). Adult development, therapy and culture: A post-modern synthesis. New York: Plenum Press.
עמוד xv - by the Department of Social Work and Social Administration at the University of Hong Kong
עמוד 288 - Benevolent Persons" and "Wise Persons". It presents a nine-fold classification of 1,955 individuals from legendary times to the Qin Dynasty, classified under four named categories: "Sage Persons," "Benevolent Persons," "Wise Persons
עמוד 288 - Table of Ancient and Modern Persons" in the Han History shows that at least "in Warring States and Han narratives, women were represented as possessing the same virtues valued in men: moral integrity, intellectual
עמוד 92 - incidents in which one partner responds or fails to respond at times of urgent need seem to
עמוד 117 - Walrond-Skinner S. (1998). The function and role of forgiveness in working with couples and families: Clearing the ground,
עמוד 288 - clearly it is time to discard the exaggerated stereotypes generated by the rhetoric of the New Culture Movement" in China at the beginning of this century.
עמוד 266 - on single parent families in Hong Kong. Hong Kong: Department of Social Work, University of Hong Kong.